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Faith, Motivation, Random Thoughts

Challenges and Blessings

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Even in your darkest moments, during the most challenging times of your life, you still have many blessings to count and be thankful for.

The hard time you’re going through can even be a blessing in disguise. I know it’s hard to think about the good during the bad times, but we must. It keeps everything in perspective and gives you the strength to overcome. It shows that there’s always a silver lining, and the tough times don’t last forever.

It’s easy to count your blessings when everything is going right. Count them when things aren’t going well and have faith that many more will come.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Excuses: Breaking the Cycle

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A quote that I like that a coach would always tell us is “excuses only satisfy those who make them.”

Excuses may satisfy only those who make them, but they harm everyone around. Your actions affect others. When you don’t meet expectations, you disappoint yourself and others. Excuses have a negative impact.

Instead, be accountable, seek solutions, and think of those who depend on you. Don’t let excuses hurt them or yourself. No more excuses.

Motivation

Beyond Underdog Limitations

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No matter the situation, you never have to be the underdog.

Being the underdog simply means others expect you to lose or face significant challenges. However, their thoughts and opinions do not have to define your reality.

The only time you truly become an underdog is when you start believing it yourself.

Always maintain faith in your skills, abilities, and self. You have the power to reject the underdog label if you choose. And for those who perceive you as one, you can prove them wrong as you progress.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Intentional Pursuits

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I have been waking up earlier than usual for the past few weeks, even on weekends when I don’t have many morning obligations. I realized the benefits of waking up early in life and made a deliberate decision to do so. Now, it has become effortless for me.

Often, we complicate things unnecessarily. We may desire something but find excuses for not pursuing it or fail to take deliberate actions to achieve our goals.

Let’s avoid overcomplicating things. If you want something, think about the necessary actions and then act deliberately. Stay consistent, and eventually, you will achieve whatever you set out to do. Things are much simpler than we perceive them to be.

Motivation

Stick To The Script

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In football, teams often create a script for their initial 15 offensive plays, which is based on studying their opponents. These plays serve to challenge the defense and benefit the team.

The first 15 play script sets the tone for the game. The important thing about the script is to adhere to it. Even if the first 3 plays don’t work, it’s crucial to persevere and execute the next 12 planned plays. Usually, one or two of those plays will unfold as intended and lead to success.

The key is to maintain confidence and stick to the script. This approach applies to our lives as well. By devising a plan for success and following it, we may encounter unexpected obstacles along the way. However, having faith and staying committed to the script or the principles of success will ultimately lead to triumph. Don’t panic when things don’t go your way, and most importantly, never give up. Stick to the script, and in the end, everything will be fine.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Trusting Instincts

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Always trust your instincts. If something feels off, there’s likely a valid reason behind it.

Avoid rushing into things. Often, we become so fixated on what we desire that we ignore warning signs. At such times, our morals and values should guide us. Upholding good morals and values can help us avoid many problems.

When we desperately want something, including someone, we may compromise our principles or find ourselves in avoidable situations. Remember that what is meant for you will come naturally. Problems arise when we try to force things.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Unwavering Motivation

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I often find it easier to have energy and motivation for various tasks at the beginning of the week. However, as the week progresses, I tend to lose momentum.

While I may still accomplish what I set out to do, it may not be as time-efficient, and my attitude towards time may diminish compared to the start of the week.

Many people experience a similar pattern, where they set New Year’s resolutions but struggle to maintain them beyond March. It is important to anticipate and prepare for those days when our drive and enthusiasm may decrease.

By acknowledging that such days will occur, we can push ourselves even harder during those times. This allows us to demonstrate consistent energy and dedication towards our goals.

Go a little harder on the hard days. Those are the ones that count the most.

Faith, Motivation, Random Thoughts

Favorable Odds

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If you’ve watched the movie series “Hunger Games,” you probably remember the popular saying used by the game officials before everyone started competing: “May the odds be ever in your favor.”

While life isn’t exactly like the Hunger Games, we still rely on favorable odds in certain situations. Just as in the movie, real-life success requires skills, preparation, and often overlooked, faith. Faith is a crucial characteristic to possess, regardless of your pursuits or plans. Having the required skills to succeed can better your odds at whatever you choose to pursue.

I hope that the odds are always in your favor and that you adequately prepare, have faith, and persevere on your journey. Best of luck in whatever “game” you are about to enter; go out there and win.

Random Thoughts

Purposeful Struggle

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At some point, we all experience struggles along our journey. There may be moments of uncertainty or times when things aren’t going our way.

As long as our purpose and the things that bring us happiness are our destination, the journey and all the trials and tribulations are acceptable.

It’s only when we embark on a purposeless journey that the problems along the way become less tolerable. We can’t avoid the problems, but we can decide where we’re headed.

Faith, Random Thoughts

Blessings and Responsibilities

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To whom much is given much is required. You may currently have numerous responsibilities, which is perfectly fine. It also indicates that you have been blessed with many things.

Your abilities come with a corresponding responsibility to utilize your resources and talents wisely, for the betterment of others.

Be grateful for what you have received and recognize your capability to manage everything that has been bestowed upon you. Persist in fulfilling what is required, as it will ultimately be rewarding.