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Motivation

Unlocking Results: Embracing Change

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“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results” – Albert Einstein

You may possess aspirations or numerous objectives that you wish to achieve. Perhaps you have been diligently working towards those goals, yet have not witnessed the desired results.

Avoid falling into the trap of repetition; instead, explore new avenues. It is possible that adopting fresh approaches, habits, and actions will be necessary to attain your desired outcome.

If your current circumstances fail to bring you contentment, consider embracing change and trying something different.

Faith, Motivation, Random Thoughts

Nearing Blessings: Mirror Insight

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Objects in mirror are closer than they appear.

The things you see in the side mirror of a car may be nearer than they seem. Drivers must be cautious as the objects in the mirror might be closer than they appear, enabling them to accurately assess the distance and make safer driving choices.

This applies to life as well, where it is crucial to make accurate judgments in various situations, including problems and unfortunate circumstances. By making the right decisions, we can evade many difficulties and also realize that good things and blessings are closer than they seem.

It is important to persevere and continue making the right moves on our life journey. Those blessings may appear distant in the mirror, but they are nearer than they seem.

Whether it’s driving or life, control what you can control and make the right moves, allowing you to avoid numerous problems and get closer to your blessings.

Faith, Motivation

Knowing Better, Doing Better

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“If you knew better, you’d do better.”

This saying suggests that our actions and decisions are influenced by our level of knowledge and understanding.

In my early life, we experienced poverty. Initially, I didn’t mind, as it was all I knew. However, when we moved to a nice neighborhood and bought a beautiful house, I witnessed a different way of life and new possibilities.

Although we had to return to the poverty-stricken area after a year, my perspective had changed. I had glimpsed another way of life and refused to accept the previous hardship. I knew that the situation was temporary, and I didn’t want to stay in the hood forever.

I had seen too much and knew better.

This realization applies to everything I pursue. Once I see that something is possible, my actions align with that belief.

Sometimes, lack of confidence arises when we haven’t witnessed something being done before. However, it’s important to remember that someone out there has already achieved what you desire. They serve as proof that it’s possible.

Once you learn the necessary actions and decisions, it’s up to you to act. Knowing the answers places the responsibility squarely on your shoulders. Learn from life’s ultimatum, do better once you know better.

Motivation

Practice Unlocks Potential

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It’s not that you can’t do it or don’t know it; you just haven’t put enough time into practicing yet.

Regardless of what it is, you can achieve it by consistently working at it. It’s what we were born to do.

It’s amazing to have a newborn baby and witness her reaching all her developmental milestones. It serves as a reminder that we all still have the ability to learn and develop any skill, passion, or knowledge we desire. However, it requires time and effort.

Babies start walking around 12 months, which is 12 months of practice. If you dedicate 12 hard months to something right now, consider how much more advanced you will become by the end of that year.

So, even if you don’t know or can’t do something at the moment, with consistent effort, that will change. Start something and see it through. Put in the practice and observe the growth.

Motivation, Random Thoughts, Uncategorized

Building Support: Consistent Effort

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The marketing rule of 7 states that a potential customer needs to see a message at least 7 times before taking action.

As a marketer, you understand that gaining customers takes time, but they will come if you continue to market to them.

The same applies to gaining support from others.

When starting new endeavors that require support, we often expect instant support and may get discouraged if it doesn’t come right away. However, just because the support isn’t immediate doesn’t mean it won’t come. You need to be consistent and make sure your message reaches others at least 7 times.

Sometimes we give up before others can support us. They may need to see more from us to be convinced or wait until they have the means to support financially. It’s not personal, and it doesn’t mean they don’t support you.

Support comes in many forms and, like marketing, often requires consistent effort to make it easier for others to support you. Keep putting in the effort, and the gratification will come eventually.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Beyond Homework: Continuing Growth

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There are still times when I am at home in the evening, and I have this feeling like I have homework to do or that I should be studying for a test or writing a paper.

The thing is, I’m not in school anymore.

Maybe this feeling stems from spending over 25 years in school, countless nights of doing homework, writing papers, and studying for tests. It’s as if those things are ingrained in me now. In a way, I’m institutionalized.

However, these are still good habits to have. Perhaps the time I spent doing academic tasks in the evening was well worth it. Just because I’m no longer in school doesn’t mean I can’t still have “homework” every evening.

My “homework” can be anything I’m currently passionate about. It can involve doing things every day that I know will help me reach my goals and promote personal growth.

Don’t let the end of formal education hinder your continuous learning. Channel the energy and time you dedicated to academics for years into something relevant in your life now. Embrace the spirit of a child who is always learning and growing. Engage in some form of “homework” tonight.

Faith, Uncategorized

Jasmine: My Greatest Blessing

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When asked about my greatest accomplishment, many would assume that making it to the NFL holds that title.

It was a childhood dream that required two decades of hard work and dedication to achieve. The feeling of reaching the NFL surpassed all expectations, but surprisingly, it is not my greatest accomplishment.

For me, that honor goes to getting married.

Marriage has always held immense value to me, and building a family of my own is something I’ve always desired. I believe that my character is better understood through my marriage rather than my football career. As a role model, I strive to set a positive example. Choosing to marry is a significant life decision, and I am wholeheartedly proud of my choice in a partner.

My wife, Jasmine, is one of God’s greatest blessings in my life. She brings out the best in me, motivates me, and possesses qualities that make her a remarkable person. She is loving, caring, intelligent, funny, a wonderful mother, and deeply faithful. With her by my side, I know that I can overcome anything.

While I have a deep passion for football and all its experiences, it cannot compare to the joy and fulfillment I feel being with my wife and child.

Sometimes, God grants us blessings that exceed our wildest dreams. Reaching the NFL was one such blessing. However, my wife is a blessing far greater than I could have ever imagined.

Today marks her birthday, and I want her to feel cherished, supported, and loved. Not just today, but every day. On this special day, I wish my earth angel, my wife Jasmine, a very happy birthday. I am proud to call her my wife. I love you, Jasmine. ❤

Faith, Motivation, Uncategorized

Lost Wallet Lessons

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Yesterday, I misplaced my wallet.

Despite retracing my steps and thoroughly searching, I still couldn’t find my wallet, and I had to come to terms with its loss. While I feel upset about the situation, it’s imperative that I move forward and avoid dwelling on the incident.

There are necessary actions to take, such as canceling my cards and obtaining replacements. The situation remains ongoing, requiring me to pursue the steps essential for a favorable outcome. I can also find valuable lessons from this mishap to minimize the likelihood of future wallet misplacements.

This extends beyond the mere loss of a wallet; disappointments and unfavorable circumstances are inevitable. During such moments, simular to losing my wallet, I must maintain a positive attitude regardless of the circumstances.

It is crucial to always contemplate the next appropriate course of action, refrain from being excessively self-critical, and avoid fixating on my mistakes. I must recognize that there is always room for improvement, and every unfavorable situation offers an opportunity for growth rather than defeat.

Additionally, it is important to understand that the magnitude of my problems is often exaggerated in my perception. I must keep in mind that with the assistance of God and my available resources, I possess the ability to overcome any challenge that comes my way.

Random Thoughts

Compassionate Connections

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We all experience challenging times in life, and it’s important to remember that we don’t always know what someone else is going through.

That’s why treating others with compassion is crucial. Sometimes, when someone displays anger, a negative attitude, or behaves poorly, it could be a result of their own struggles that we are unaware of.

It’s also important to be cautious ourselves, as someone else’s interaction with us might be the final straw that causes them to act out.

While we may not have all the answers to everyone’s problems, we can control how we treat and interact with others. Our positive energy has the potential to make a difference. Just one good interaction can counterbalance the negative emotions someone may be experiencing.

Faith, Motivation, Random Thoughts

Eternal Life Assurance

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Do you have life insurance?

Most people would encourage you to have it. You never know what can happen. It can help your family, act as financial protection, and give you peace of mind.

All of those benefits are good, but are they exactly necessary? Not everyone believes in life insurance.

The life insurance that everyone should believe in and invest in is our life after death (or on earth for that matter). Like many believe, there is a God and a heaven. My actions while alive are my real life insurance. They can protect me while I’m alive, as well as help me get to those pearly gates when it’s all said and done.

So it’s good to invest money into life insurance for material gains for your family, but the real life insurance we all should have is how we behave and believe in God and follow His will.

It’s not all about money or any other earthly thing. It’s much bigger than that. Plus, God’s life insurance is free.