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Motivation, Random Thoughts

Teaming Up for Success

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Being self-driven is often essential when striving to accomplish many things in your life. However, it is not always the most efficient approach.

At times, it is necessary to surround oneself with motivated individuals who will provide accountability and support in achieving goals. Often, people have the right vision but lack the necessary tools to bring it to fruition.

Creating a supportive team of like-minded individuals can help fill the gaps. Conversely, being surrounded by the wrong people can hinder progress.

Seek out individuals who will motivate and take the journey with you. Additionally, make it an effort to support others in reaching their goals.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Self-Sufficiency: The Secret to Success

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Having an assistant can definitely make life easier. It can help with time management, organization, productivity, and many other things.

However, having an assistant requires being established, productive, and having financial resources. Therefore, it may not be an option for everyone.

The good news is that personal assistants can be replaced by practicing good time management, organization, and productivity. These practices can bring relief and structure to our lives, just like having an assistant would.

We have to assist ourselves to the fullest before anyone else does. If our lives are a little out of whack right now, or not quite as organized as we’d like, we should think about how having an assistant would help, and do all of the things an assistant would do.

It’s important to remember that true personal growth and success comes from the ability to be self-sufficient. While having an assistant can be helpful, it is important to first establish a foundation of productivity and organization within ourselves. By taking responsibility for our own lives and being proactive in our approach to success, we can achieve the same benefits as having an assistant and more.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Nice Guys Finish First

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There’s the commonly used proverb that says “nice guys finish last”. The phrase means that sometimes people who are too nice can be taken advantage of by others who are not as nice and that may cause them to lose in a competition. Though I find some truth to that statement, I don’t quite agree with it.

I believe that nice guys finish, period. It may look as if the nice guys are on pace to finish last, but the thing is, the “not nice” guys do not finish at all. There may be times when they are ahead of you, but if you continue to be nice, you’ll see that you’ll keep progressing when the not nice guys eventually come to an end, because of their own bad characteristics.

Having good character and morals will always win in the end. It is important to balance kindness and assertiveness to be successful and achieve one’s goals.

Being kind and considerate does not necessarily mean that one will always finish last. And even if you do finish last, I can guarantee you that everyone who finished in front of you was nice also. Embrace being the nice guy (or girl) and know that it will be very beneficial for you when the race is all said and done.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Consistency for Optimal Living

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It is easier to maintain good habits than to try to restart them after falling off the wagon. While some daily tasks may seem tedious or difficult, they are important and their significance may only become apparent after stopping them.

For me, regular exercise, healthy eating, making the bed, tidying up, daily reading and prayer are a few beneficial activities that help me achieve the lifestyle I desire. Taking a long break from them can make it tough to resume them. Therefore, it is important to keep doing them consistently.

Similarly, there may be daily activities that are not beneficial to us and should be replaced with positive ones. Additionally, there may be tasks that we currently do not do, but which can greatly benefit us.

It is important to identify these tasks and incorporate them into our daily routine. By doing so, we will see the results of our efforts and achieve our desired outcomes. Trust the process and commit to doing these daily tasks.

Motivation, Sports

Expand Your Dreams: Reach Beyond

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As a kid, I dreamed of playing in the NFL, like most kids do. It always seemed achievable, but statistics suggest otherwise. Making it to the NFL is a very difficult task. Only 1.6% of college players make it, and some people don’t even make it to college.

I say all this to say that I did it. I would be lying if I said it was hard to do. Don’t get me wrong, it takes a lot of hard work and dedication, but that goes for anything you want in life. I just had to make the right choices. Making it to the NFL was very eye-opening. I realized that it is possible to achieve your wildest dreams, and I also learned that a lot of times we do not dream big enough.

If I can make it to the NFL against all odds, what else can I do? I have to think even bigger because I know it’s possible. You may have a big goal or dream that you feel is hard to reach, but believe me when I tell you that you’re closer to that goal than you think, and it’s easier to achieve than you think.

So, whatever your biggest dream is, think even bigger. You’re more than capable of reaching it.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Balancing Advice and Authenticity in Life

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There is a delicate balance between taking the advice and guidance of others and forging your own path.

In certain aspects of life, there will always be individuals with more experience than you who can offer assistance. However, this does not necessarily mean that they possess all the answers.

Although I may desire the best for someone and offer my counsel, it is ultimately up to them whether or not they choose to heed it. I am content with this outcome. It is crucial to listen to others, while also embracing your own unique qualities and devising your approach to a situation. As Drake once said, “as long as the outcome is income,” or as long as the intentions and results of a circumstance are positive.

The key is to strike a balance between accepting advice from others and following your instincts or natural inclinations.

Random Thoughts, Uncategorized

Leadership Lessons from Dogs

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I never had the chance to grow up with dogs, so when I got my first puppy as an adult, I had to Google just about everything, from what dogs can eat to how to train them.

One thing that I would always come across is the phrase “it’s never the dog’s fault” in regards to the dog doing something wrong, such as peeing on the carpet or going through the trash, or any other action the owner doesn’t like. Though I don’t completely agree with the statement, it definitely taught me a lot about accountability, leadership, and even parenting.

Sometimes we like to blame anything and anyone for why something bad happened. We have to take a step back and see what part we played in the situation. I know a lot of the “bad” things that my dog does are a result of me not doing what I was supposed to do.

My dog might pee on the carpet, which is bad, but maybe I took too long to take her out, or I gave her too much water, or I wasn’t looking at her cues telling me that she had to potty.

Parenting can be the same way. A child can misbehave and get into a lot of trouble, but the child can’t take all of the blame. Maybe it’s the parent’s fault. However your life turns out, whether good or bad, it might not be anyone’s fault but yours. You also influence those that you’re in charge of, as well as those that you’re often around.

Understand that you have a bigger influence on them than you think, and make the right choices, as well as hold yourself accountable when needed.

Random Thoughts

Life’s Unpredictable, Stay Positive.

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What having a baby has taught me is that having a plan is great, but life is unpredictable, and that’s okay.

Newborn babies can be unpredictable, making it hard to plan their eating, sleeping, or daily activities. If my baby decides to stay up late, I may not be able to go to bed early, as planned. As Andre 3000 said, “you can plan a pretty picnic, but you can’t predict the weather.”

It’s important to be able to quickly adjust to unforeseen problems and make the next right move. Instead of complaining about not getting enough sleep, I accept things for what they are, take care of my baby, and find something productive to do while up late at night (or my wife does, I still try get my sleep at times LOL).

The same applies to football. Our offense may plan to score, but we might throw an interception instead. We can’t let that one bad play get in the way of winning the game. The defense would have to go out there and respond and help salvage the offense’s mistakes.

Even if small plans don’t go accordingly, it’s important to keep the right attitude and motivation to achieve the big goals. Don’t let one minor setback derail your entire journey towards achieving your big plan.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Predict Actions, Secure Success

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If you were to examine the totality of your choices and actions, you would likely realize that they are very similar to those of others who are in a similar place in their life.

This was apparent to me during my football-playing days. In college, my teammates and I had comparable schedules, habits, and lifestyles, from attending classes and working out, to our diets, off-field decisions, and even our character. The same held true for my experience in the NFL. Similarly, players who made similar bad decisions ended up in similar bad predicaments.

Essentially, your actions are a strong predictor of your future. Achieving what we want in life is much simpler than we tend to believe. We just need to study those who are in a position in life where we’d like to be, or doing something we’d like to do, and emulate their actions.

Additionally, surrounding ourselves with those who share similar goals and aspirations can make the process even easier. However, to succeed, we must avoid doing things that are counterproductive to our aspirations.We just need to follow the laws of success and we can achieve our goals.

Faith, Motivation

Staggered Blessings

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Sometimes, blessings and opportunities are not always consistent with your faith and hard work. There may be times when you feel like nothing is happening, while at other times, the blessings are flowing in.

This is where having faith comes into play. You must believe that good things will come, even if it is not at the time you expect them. The key to receiving blessings is by making the right choices, and having faith and works.

No matter what you are pursuing, keep going and don’t give up. You never know when you will be rewarded, but you will eventually. It’s all about persistence and perseverance in achieving your goals.