Random Thoughts

Daily Bliss

No matter the day, whether it’s today or any other day, make sure you do something you love.

Of course, it should be something positive, as we all have vices or tendencies that we may enjoy but aren’t beneficial. Find something positive that brings you happiness.

One of my favorites is writing a blog every day. I enjoy expressing myself and challenging my abilities, and writing a blog helps me do just that.

While not everything we do daily brings us happiness, it’s still necessary to do them. However, engaging in something you love every day is also essential. So if you haven’t done it yet today, put it on your list of things to do.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Folding Laundry, Reaching Goals

Folding laundry is one of the most fulfilling things, but it’s not something I enjoy doing all the time.

I love the results of neatly folded and organized clothes, but the process can be annoying and time-consuming at times. To help me with this, I think of the end results. I consider all the reasons why I need to fold my laundry, and that motivates me to muster up the energy and desire to tackle the task.

Folding laundry is similar to any other task or goal in life; the rewards are gratifying, but it requires effort to get there. Sometimes, facing a big pile of clothes to fold can be discouraging, just as seeing all the tasks required to reach your goals in life can be overwhelming.

However, like folding laundry, you can approach your goals step by step, one piece of clothing at a time. I simply fold the clothes one by one, knowing that eventually I’ll have a complete stack of neatly folded garments, and I’ll get to enjoy the benefits of having clean, organized laundry. The same principle applies to any goal or task in life. By taking things step by step, action after action, I will eventually achieve my objectives.

So, the next time you have to do your laundry, approach it with enthusiasm, knowing that you’ll reach your goal of folded laundry, piece by piece. Maintain that same enthusiasm and approach when pursuing your other goals as well.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Sacrifice for Success

Success usually comes after sacrifice.

To reach whatever goal or objective you desire, there’s often something standing between you and that goal that requires sacrifice.

It could be time, friendships, money, lifestyle changes, or anything else. So, if you feel like you’re putting in effort but not seeing results, perhaps you aren’t making the right sacrifices.

If it’s unknowingly, return to the drawing board and make some changes. If you know the sacrifices you need to make but still fail to do so, then it’s solely on you. Make the necessary sacrifices or accept your current situation.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Resilient Pursuit

The singer Aaliyah once said, “If at first you don’t succeed, dust yourself off and try again.”

Trying again doesn’t always mean attempting the same exact thing again, as that would be considered insanity. Trying again may involve adopting a different approach to your goal, exerting more effort, or even pivoting to something else.

A dead end in a maze doesn’t signify that you can’t escape; it simply implies that you may need to backtrack a few steps and explore a new path. As long as you maintain the energy and the right attitude to find your way out of the maze, you’ll be fine.

So if at first you don’t succeed, dust yourself off and try again, this time with a new approach and adjustments based on your past shortcomings. Eventually, you’ll achieve your objective.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Unwanted Actions, Personal Strength

Every day, we find ourselves doing things that we may not want to do, but we do them for others.

For example, even if we don’t feel like going to work, we still go. At work, we might be assigned tasks that we’re not enthusiastic about, yet we still carry them out. Similarly, as parents, we often make sacrifices and undertake tasks for our children that we may not necessarily want to do.

We are often oblivious to the fact that we engage in these actions daily, even if we have reservations about them. Therefore, we might as well invest our efforts in doing things that benefit ourselves, even if we don’t initially desire to do them.

This could include waking up early, exercising, pursuing education, or making significant lifestyle changes. Ultimately, it will all be worthwhile.

We understand that we are capable of doing things we don’t want to do, especially for others. So, it’s equally important to do them for ourselves. In the future, we will appreciate these efforts more than anything else.

Random Thoughts

Cherishing Family Moments

In the past 12 years, I’ve only spent Thanksgiving at home with my family once.

The rest of the time, I’ve been in my college dorm, eating Pop Tarts and snacks from the gas station, or in a hotel, at a coach or teammate’s house, and in recent years, in California with my wife.

This experience has taught me that nothing compares to the warm love and presence of family. We often take Thanksgiving, and any holiday when the family gathers, for granted. I’ve developed a greater appreciation for time spent with family.

Being alone on holidays puts things into perspective. You realize how much your family completes you. I used to feel a sense of incompleteness when I spent holidays alone or with other families that weren’t mine.

Fortunately, I’ve only missed holidays with family because I was pursuing my dreams or engaging in other productive aspects of my life, rather than being in jail or having a falling out with my family.

Now that I have a wife and child, holidays are more enjoyable than ever. I’m at a stage in my life where I’m creating my own family to spend the holidays with, regardless of our location. Even if I can’t go home and spend every holiday with my entire family, I feel complete and happy to spend it with my own little family, which is truly wonderful.

However, holidays aren’t everything. They don’t make or break relationships (or at least they shouldn’t). Every moment spent with loved ones is like a holiday to me. I’m always grateful for them, and this Thanksgiving, I feel even more thankful.

Faith, Random Thoughts

Divine Guiding Light

When I reflect on my life and think of all the trials and tribulations that I’ve been through, all the times of uncertainty, and any challenging moments, I realize that God was always there with me throughout the way.

Prayers that seemed unanswered were indeed answered. In the moments of uncertainty, I realize that I was being guided the entire time.

I realize that certain people were put into my life, and certain situations happened exactly when they didn’t need to.

I see all the lessons that were taught to me along the way, and I see that I got through any problems that arose.

I know I’m not special either. Everyone can feel the same way as I do if they reflect on their lives. We should use that reflection and realization that God is always with us, and use it to continue facing challenges with confidence and keeping our faith no matter what.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Pushing Through Procrastination

I don’t know how many dirty dishes I have washed in my life, but I know it’s well into the thousands.

Washing dishes (and cleaning the counters and stove, and sweeping the floor) was one of the first chores I ever had. It was also one of the first tasks that I didn’t enjoy doing, but I did it consistently.

Being tasked with washing dishes helped me with cleanliness, but also with mental toughness. There were many nights when the last thing I wanted to do was wash dishes, but I still did it. I had a responsibility, and I had to do it. This has helped me achieve many things in life.

No matter what you’re pursuing, there will be days when you don’t have as much energy or simply don’t want to do what you have to do. Those are the days you should appreciate the most. Those are the days that will build your character.

They will show you what you can still do even when you don’t want to. It will help build that grit and resilience. Every night that I did not feel like doing the dishes but still did them, the end result was happiness. I would be proud that I accomplished a goal, and I would also have peace of mind, knowing I wouldn’t be punished for skipping my dishwashing duties.

So the next task that you’re avoiding or dreading, think about the positive impact it will have on you when you follow through and do what needs to be done.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Change. Choose. Thrive.

One major lifestyle change can significantly impact your life, either for the better or for the worse.

It is up to us to choose which changes will enhance our lives and which will hinder our progress.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Choose Positive Days

Sometimes you just gotta wake up, pray, and choose to have a good day.

Before any problem or situation can deter your day, choose to have a good day. Many times, we actually wake up and choose to have a bad day. We have negative attitudes or already possess negative predetermined outlooks on what’s to happen in certain situations.

So, choose to have a good day, then handle everything that happens that day with a positive attitude. It’s something so simple that can positively affect your happiness.