Tag: authenticity

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Balancing Advice and Authenticity in Life

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There is a delicate balance between taking the advice and guidance of others and forging your own path.

In certain aspects of life, there will always be individuals with more experience than you who can offer assistance. However, this does not necessarily mean that they possess all the answers.

Although I may desire the best for someone and offer my counsel, it is ultimately up to them whether or not they choose to heed it. I am content with this outcome. It is crucial to listen to others, while also embracing your own unique qualities and devising your approach to a situation. As Drake once said, “as long as the outcome is income,” or as long as the intentions and results of a circumstance are positive.

The key is to strike a balance between accepting advice from others and following your instincts or natural inclinations.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

The Power of Authenticity

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It’s good to always stay true to you. We have to be sincere, honest, and authentic in our thoughts, feelings, and actions. It’s easy to try to become what we think will be appealing to others, or do what is trendy or popular at the moment. That will never work in the long run because I think people naturally can tell when someone is being genuine or not.

When people sense that someone is not being genuine, it can create a sense of distrust and reluctance to support that person. This is because people want to feel that they can trust and rely on those they support, and when there is a lack of authenticity or sincerity, it can create doubt and hesitation in their minds.

It’s important to strive for genuineness in whatever we do and in our interactions with others, especially when seeking their support or assistance. Just be shamelessly you, and you will attract people who like and support you for who you are. If you do anything other than that, you won’t be fooling anyone but yourself.