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Motivation, Random Thoughts

Fleeting Time Reflections

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December is almost here, and every year around this time, we all begin to say, “The year went by so fast” or something along those lines.

You’d think that after one year, we wouldn’t be surprised at how quickly the year has passed, but nope, it still shocks us every year, LOL.

It’s the truth, though. The year does go by fast, which can be either a good or a bad thing. Some people will accomplish everything they set out to do and will be satisfied with the fast year. However, those who did not achieve much may not feel satisfied.

A lot can happen in 365 days, but equally, a lot can also not happen. Every day matters, though. Take it one day at a time and try to make the most of each day. By the end of the year, you’ll look back and be satisfied with the fast year that has just gone by.

We don’t have 365 days left in this year, but we do have a little over 30 days remaining. Regardless of what you’ve done throughout this year, you can still finish strong and end the year on a positive note, ready for the next year.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Maximizing Success Through Relationships

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We often have many resources right in front of us to help us get to where we want to go in life but don’t use them. Often, those resources are people we know, such as family members, friends, or acquaintances.

The problem is that we often don’t ask for their help, or they aren’t willing to offer it. Sometimes it may be a little bit of both.

Think of those you know who have found success in a particular area of their life. Have you ever asked them for advice? Have you ever sought their mentorship or tried to tap into their knowledge?

We all possess unique advantages that we should utilize to get ahead in life, and many times, those advantages come from the people we know. Let’s make use of and learn from them…if they are willing to help.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Understanding Our Emotions

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We often display emotions of which we are not aware. Sometimes, it takes someone to tell us if we are acting a little out of character.

We could come across as angry, sad, annoyed, etc., and not even realize it. Even when someone tells us how we are acting, it is still up to us to listen to what they are saying as well as try to think about what is making us act that way.

Also, keep that in mind when you have a bad interaction with someone. You never know what they are going through to make them act that way. By being more aware of our emotions and the emotions of others, we can improve our relationships and our overall well-being.

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The first of many

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And for my next trick, I will write a blog post every day.

I have always been a very competitive person. I’m not a sore loser, but I can for sure be a sore winner at times. I want to win at anything that I do. I’ve always been that way. I like to challenge myself all the time. There’s no better feeling than when you challenge yourself to do something, then eventually fulfill that challenge or goal. It’s always reconfirmation that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Growing up, I was very competitive with my siblings. Everything was a competition. We even had a game where whoever put their seat belt on first when we got into the car was the winner. Y’all know I won most of the time.

When I was younger, my brothers and I would always play the video game Madden NFL against each other. We used to love to play this mini-game mode called “Rushing Attack”.

The concept of Rushing Attack was simple: A player is given control of a running back and a full back and there’s also a few moving blocking dummies that would simulate a run play. The objective for that player is to score as many touchdowns as possible within a minute. The opposing player would be on defense with two to three players.Their objective is to stop the person on offense from scoring touchdowns. After one minute, you switch sides. The person who was on offense is now on defense, and vice versa. Whoever had the most points after each player got their one minute on offense, won. You earned points from things such as yards gained, stiff arming someone, tackling someone, etc. The most valuable objective was scoring a touchdown. Those were worth the most points. If you scored consecutive touchdowns, you would earn even more points. That’s pretty much all my brothers and I wanted to do; get consecutive touchdowns.

Playing that game mode all those years and trying to get those consecutive touchdowns helped shape me as a football player. “Rushing Attack” taught me how to run the ball efficiently. It taught me how to read blocks, how to set up blocks. It taught me about angles and leverages and even taught me how to do moves such as spins and jukes. It’s amazing what can happen when you do something repetitively. You will naturally get better. You might even be rewarded even more for doing it consecutively.

That is how I plan to approach writing blogs. I will do it everyday. I got the idea from Seth Godin. He has written a blog post everyday for over 7,000 days. That’s crazy! It’s possible nonetheless (Jordan shrug). He says his blog posts are not to get people to read it, or even for monetization. He posts a blog everyday because he made a decision, one time, to write everyday. He doesn’t post a blog post because he feels like it, and he doesn’t post a blog post because it is perfect. He writes a blog post because it is tomorrow. It’s that simple. Having that mentality helps the work move forward.

To reach any big goal, or to do anything of greatness, you have to do it consistently even when you do not feel like doing it. Imagine if your dentist only performed well at work when they felt like doing it. There would be many days where clients got subpar dental services. As an athlete, you got to show up everyday (every play actually) and perform to the best of your ability. If not, someone who does show up everyday and perform will eventually pass you up.

I love to challenge myself. I love to compete. I love to be consistent and I love to stay out of my comfort zone. Only good things have come out of my life when I have done so. I know that the same will be true with writing a blog post every day. I encourage you to do something consistently also. Rather that’s reading everyday, working out everyday, or practicing whatever skill/craft you are passionate about; just do it.

Posting a blog everyday is not too hard. Neither is doing any other task, such as working out everyday, or eating healthy everyday. But as Jim Rohn would say, “What’s simple to do is also simple not to do. The magic is not in the complexity of the task; the magic is in the doing of simple things repeatedly and long enough to ignite the miracle of the Compound Effect.”

So here’s to my first blog post of many. Each new day that the Lord blesses me with, I shall bless y’all with a new blog post. For this is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice (and blog) and be glad in it. -Psalms 118:24 KJV