Category: Motivation

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Shared Human Experiences

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There is nothing new under the sun. Everything has been experienced or done before.

This helps me when dealing with life. I know that most problems or situations that I face in life, someone has already gone through them. That can give me guidance on how to deal with the situation, or even peace of mind knowing that I’m not the only one who has gone through certain problems or situations.

We are all in this together, and we can all help each other. Your situation isn’t as unique as you might think. Remember, shared experiences connect us all.

Motivation, Sports

Look Good, Play Good

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The football player Deion Sanders often said, “If you look good, you feel good. If you feel good, you play good.”

That’s the mindset that I and many other athletes adopted. I always felt like I played a little better in the games when I was swagged out.

This mindset extends beyond sports, though. I can have nothing important planned for the day, but if I get dressed and look good, I, in turn, feel good, and ultimately have a better day. When you look good and feel good, and “play” well, others will begin to treat you differently as well.

Whether it’s sports or life, the pride you take in your appearance and the effort you put into feeling and performing well is often up to us. Do things that make you feel good and be more productive.

Taking care of your appearance and well-being can have a positive impact on various aspects of your life.

Motivation

Unleash Your Potential

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Don’t place limits on what you can achieve, how much money you can make, or who you can become. Anything is possible. We often limit ourselves.

When you take a leap of faith and pursue a grand dream, you’ll realize it’s achievable, and you could have pursued it sooner. Sometimes, the only way to discover if something is possible is by trying it out.

Remember, the only real limits are the ones we set for ourselves. Believe in your potential and take that leap of faith towards your dreams.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Understanding Differences

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We were all taught different things growing up – different morals, values, and norms have been instilled in us. You may have an interaction with a stranger that isn’t that pleasant. Maybe they weren’t as respectful as you’d expect, or maybe they did something as simple as not holding the door for you when you were about to exit a place.

Some of our bad interactions with others, we can’t hold against them. It might be how they were raised or what was or wasn’t present in their lives while growing up. Maybe they missed a few crucial lessons growing up; likewise, maybe you did too.

So be conscious of that when interacting with others. Lead by example, and hopefully, your positive characteristics can positively influence someone else.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Golden Rule Wisdom

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The Golden Rule states to treat others the way you want to be treated. It’s one of the first things we learn as kids, heavily emphasized in preschool and kindergarten.

It’s a great rule, but we must experience being treated poorly to truly understand how to treat others well. So, treat others as you would like to be treated, but don’t fret too much when others mistreat you.

They serve as a reminder of what not to do. Don’t mimic their behavior. Stay true to yourself, and your positivity will have a greater impact on others than their negativity.

Motivation, Random Thoughts, Sports

Life’s Physical Game

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The remarkable aspect of playing collegiate and professional football is that you train hard during the off-season to prepare your mind and body to peak condition.

However, as soon as the first snap of the ball is taken in full pads during live action, you can get injured. This injury could be season-ending or a lingering issue that lasts throughout the season. Despite knowing that it’s inevitable, you still go through the process. That’s football.

The lessons learned and the confidence gained during the off-season are valuable, even with the risk of injury or pain. That’s what the off-season was getting you ready for: to be mentally and physically tough enough to play through or recover from injuries.

Life is a physical endeavor; clashes, injuries, and pain are all part of the game. Prepare for them, embrace them. By doing so, you can achieve the most crucial thing: enjoyment.

Football is enjoyable, injuries and all. Some of my fondest football memories involve sprained MCLs, bone bruises, sprained ankles, strained hamstrings, dislocated thumbs, and more. I was always prepared for them, and I always got through them. Such is life.

Motivation

Knowledge Unshackles

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Knowledge is not only power but also freedom. Dr. Myles Munroe once said, “The greatest weapon of an oppressor is the maintenance of ignorance.”

Let’s embrace learning, apply knowledge, and empower ourselves.

Motivation

Living Your Wisdom

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It’s important to ensure that you apply all the wisdom and advice you give to others to your own life. The weight of your words lies in your actions.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Courage Through Time

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One of my earliest and fondest memories is from when I was about 3 or 4 years old, having to get shots during a doctor’s visit.

The doctor was impressed that I sat by myself for the shot without crying. This moment has stayed with me because it revealed my bravery and ability to independently face challenges. It was my first memory of a doctor’s visit, and I’ve never cried after a shot since then.

Interestingly, I had many doctor’s visits before this particular one, all of which I don’t recall. I’m certain I must have cried during shots as a baby, as most babies do. This suggests that it took numerous doctor’s visits, shots, and tears before I found the courage to handle things on my own, and before I understood that shots weren’t as dreadful as they seemed.

So, whatever you fear or whatever problem troubles you now, remember that with time and consistency, you can overcome it. Through practice, you can improve and grow. Things that scare you today may not do so in the future.

Motivation, Random Thoughts

Doorway Kindness

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One of the simplest things that makes me happy every day is holding the door for a stranger or having a stranger hold the door for me.

That small interaction of a door hold and a “thank you” exchange with a stranger warms my heart. We should always look out for each other. We should help strangers without expecting anything in return.

Something as simple as holding the door for someone is a reminder that we are all in this together. Let’s spread kindness in our daily interactions.