When it comes to people, the cliché “never judge a book by its cover” is true.
We often judge people or have preconceived notions before even meeting them. Sometimes we make up our minds about people before giving them the time to listen to them and understand them.
Then, when we finally do interact with them in person or observe them online, we are already listening with biases, which means we aren’t truly hearing what they have to say. Instead, we make assumptions about their words and actions.
However, if we actually give them a chance without any biases or prejudices, we may discover that we like them or at least better understand them. I’m sure there are many people who don’t like me or have false assumptions about me. If they got to know me, their opinions might change.
We shouldn’t let others’ opinions of people influence us too much. We have to think for ourselves and make our own assessments at times. By judging a book by its cover, we miss out on valuable friendships, relationships, knowledge, and wisdom that person could offer.
So, the next time you feel a certain way about a person without really knowing them or studying them, ask yourself why. Then, take a step further and try not to be too judgmental. Give them a chance. Your assumptions may be wrong, and that person may have a lot to offer you, which could be highly beneficial.
FLY, BLACK BOY 