Change is often emphasized in life, as no one desires to remain the same person they were 10 to 15 years ago. We strive to showcase growth and progression, which is a positive mindset to have.
However, it is common to make the mistake of believing that we must completely alter ourselves from who we used to be. I disagree with this notion. Sometimes, reflecting on our previous selves can serve as a reminder of who we have become.
There may be qualities from our past that could be beneficial to reintegrate into our present selves. Perhaps we were bolder, more shameless, outgoing, or free-spirited in the past.
Changing and growing does not necessitate becoming an entirely new person. We can remain the same person we used to be, only improved. It is possible to regain traits from our past, but with more refinement and control.
Ultimately, we know which traits truly define us and which ones would still be beneficial to possess. It is important not to let others’ opinions of who we should be influence us excessively. We should maintain those unique traits from the past that make us who we are and contribute to our happiness.
FLY, BLACK BOY 